Marriage and Family is the first hand Ministry you have to manage before you learn to manage people to Jesus!
Your family is your flock, if you are a pastor, a teacher, a priest by profession you are no other exempted but a DISCIPLE of Jesus.
LIVE what you teach, and teach to your own family. Live it and be far from worldly living. Sexually immoral, drunkenness, liar, greed, character of no integrity, pride, gossip, swindler, shall not be found in you..
You shall have the fruit of the Spirit of God.
By this people shall see who your God is.!